Mothers – Maman: spanking memories: mothers, fathers, teachers, relatives and others

From all sides

I thought you might like to hear about the origins of my own particular spanking fetish, which has been fuelled by experi… more

A change in policy

When I was growing up in the 1950s and 60s, parents did not hesitate to scold their children publicly, or even spank them. … more

Mother and son intimacy

As a boy growing up in the 50s, I was used to getting the slipper from my father, as I suspect were many other children of tha… more

Smacked in the name of God

I grew up in what would now be called a cult – there was strict dress, non-mainstream schooling, extreme entanglement wi… more

A childhood of smacking

I’d like to relay some smacking memories from my own childhood – for the sake of anonymity, I’ll refer to my… more

Dealing with a thief

Around the age of seven, in 1986, I went through a patch of stealing. Mum and dad were deeply honest people and naturally f… more

Two kinds of warmth

My name is Aahan, I am a 42-year-old Indian-English man. I live in Birmingham now, having spent my childhood split betwe… more

Double trouble over workbook

I previously wrote about how I almost got spanked in kindergarten for something I didn’t do. I was a really well-b… more

The mark on the chair

My great grandmother used to watch me one afternoon a week at her house after my half-day of kindergarten was over – this w… more

My spanking history

Thank you for your website and all you do to preserve spanking history – I am a long-term reader and thought it was about ti… more

A brush with CP

I have an older brother and a younger sister, and of the three of us, I got spanked the most by quite a considerable margin. … more

Punish bottoms, not minds

One aspect of spankings few people mention when discussing childhood discipline is the element of panic. It swallowed … more

Insight into the past

I am not a fetishist – I’m not ‘kinky’ and not naturally aroused by spanking. My husband, however, i… more

A close-run thing

I grew up in the 1970s and early 1980s, when corporal punishment was a normal part of kids’ lives.

When I was little… more

Family spanking therapy

I’ve been reading Maman for years, and was happily surprised to see your post about troubled teen schools. I didn… more

Red slips, red bottoms

In some ways, you could say that it was pretty inevitable that a dyed-in-the-wool spanko such as myself would end up bein… more

Truly an own goal

I had been saving my pocket money forever, and finally the big day arrived – I had enough money for a new football. It had a b… more

A singular spanking

I only got one spanking as a kid that I really remember, and that was when I was seven years old. This was back in 1988 – my mom … more

Smacking in the family

I’m a long-time reader, first-time writer! Thank you very much for the website you run. My parents were both smac… more

Spankings on set

I’m a moderately successful former child star, what you might call a ‘Class B’ actress – backgroun… more

Little brother’s comeuppance

I grew up in the 2000s, and by that time I don’t think spanking was really that popular among parents – certainly no… more

Upping the stakes

When I was growing up, my father was around only periodically, leaving my mother to raise me and my siblings by herself, w… more

Hot weather hidings

The recent very hot weather in England reminded me of a summer spanking I had to give to two of my daughters.

It was a baking … more

A tradition of family discipline

I would like share some thoughts and life experiences with you. I am a mother of two daughters in their mid-20s. I raised t… more

Mum’s little secret?

I am convinced that spanking fetishism is genetic, or at least partially so. My sister Marianne and I are both spankos – w… more

Careful what you wish for!

I only found the Maman site a few days ago and have been reading the posts avidly each evening since, when I have some time o… more

Two shocking spankings

I was looking something up online when the title of a story on this site popped up as a suggestion. I was somewhat taken aba… more

A paddling, plus

When I was growing up, it didn’t matter how old you were – if you lived under our parents’ roof, you were stil… more

The Big Girl Strap

In an earlier story, I described how our three daughters – Katherine, Lizzy and Andrea – had a very clear rule set out for t… more

Fundamentally sore bottoms

I grew up in a fundamentalist Christian sect, and from a very early age I knew I was interested in spanking. It wasn’… more

An early starter

I discovered the joys of spanking at the grand old age of four and a half. My grandparents lived a short walk from our home, … more

Two hard lessons

One day when I was 16, I got into serious trouble at school. The punishment was usually a trip to the coaches’ offic… more

Waiting for the cane

I was about 16 years old when I stayed at my aunt’s house for a month during the summer. My parents had to travel to S… more

School, then home

My husband and I both come from a military background, where we learned the importance of discipline, responsibility a… more

Learning about boys

My sister and I were routinely spanked by my mother. She would strip us of all clothing and put us over her knee and g… more

The bare truth

When I was a child, it was mostly my dad who spanked myself and my siblings when we misbehaved – but make no mistake, if he wa… more