Fathers – Page 3 – Maman: spanking memories: mothers, fathers, teachers, relatives and others

From all sides

I thought you might like to hear about the origins of my own particular spanking fetish, which has been fuelled by experiences on all sides of the equation. It began, … Read more

Mother and son intimacy

As a boy growing up in the 50s, I was used to getting the slipper from my father, as I suspect were many other children of that tie. The punishment … Read more

Smacked in the name of God

I grew up in what would now be called a cult – there was strict dress, non-mainstream schooling, extreme entanglement with the church and little outside influence. I am an … Read more

A childhood of smacking

I’d like to relay some smacking memories from my own childhood – for the sake of anonymity, I’ll refer to myself as ‘Bobby’ if you don’t mind. Although a girl, … Read more

Softened up for spanking

The most embarrassing spanking I ever got was the first time I was done completely nude in front of both my parents. This wasn’t to be the only one I … Read more

The call home

I was born in 1994, and so corporal punishment in schools was long gone by the time I started at primary. I went to a church of England school in … Read more

Two kinds of warmth

My name is Aahan, I am a 42-year-old Indian-English man. I live in Birmingham now, having spent my childhood split between Mumbai, London and Portsmouth. My parents are both Indian … Read more

My last time

It was 1991, and I was by now in secondary school. There was no corporal punishment used there, and even most of my mates were getting nothing beyond the odd … Read more

My spanking history

Thank you for your website and all you do to preserve spanking history – I am a long-term reader and thought it was about time I contributed myself. Mum and … Read more

My first ever slippering

I was never very good at school work. Fortunately for me, the school I attended had stopped using corporal punishment before I began attending it (some time ahead of it … Read more

The awakening

The first teacher I had a crush on was Mrs Patterson, who took me in third grade. I wasn’t the only one who thought her pretty. My father was the … Read more

Punish bottoms, not minds

One aspect of spankings few people mention when discussing childhood discipline is the element of panic. It swallowed me as soon as I knew I was getting a spanking. I’d … Read more

A boot up the backside

Let me take you back to a cold winter morning in 1987. I was eight years old, and I was quite a naughty boy – running off, rarely listening to … Read more

Insight into the past

I am not a fetishist – I’m not ‘kinky’ and not naturally aroused by spanking. My husband, however, is – something I didn’t get to know about until the first … Read more

Family spanking therapy

I’ve been reading Maman for years, and was happily surprised to see your post about troubled teen schools. I didn’t go to one but my family went thru family therapy … Read more

Red slips, red bottoms

In some ways, you could say that it was pretty inevitable that a dyed-in-the-wool spanko such as myself would end up being educated at a socially extreme school. I was … Read more

Truly an own goal

I had been saving my pocket money forever, and finally the big day arrived – I had enough money for a new football. It had a black and white hexagons … Read more

Smacking in the family

I’m a long-time reader, first-time writer! Thank you very much for the website you run. My parents were both smacked as children, and they in turn smacked me and my … Read more

Hot weather hidings

The recent very hot weather in England reminded me of a summer spanking I had to give to two of my daughters. It was a baking hot Saturday and hubby … Read more

The Big Girl Strap

In an earlier story, I described how our three daughters – Katherine, Lizzy and Andrea – had a very clear rule set out for them regarding corporal punishment in school. … Read more

Fundamentally sore bottoms

I grew up in a fundamentalist Christian sect, and from a very early age I knew I was interested in spanking. It wasn’t until after I left that I understood … Read more

School, then home

My husband and I both come from a military background, where we learned the importance of discipline, responsibility and obedience – so it was probably inevitable that we would be … Read more

Timmy’s only time

I think it’s generally accepted that during the days when children were regularly spanked, boys tended to get it far more than girls. Whether boys are generally naughtier or push … Read more

Double smacked bottom

I attended a small private primary school and unusually report cards were not a thing there. Communication between home and school was mostly in the form of a parent-teacher conference … Read more

A clean start

One day, when I was 10 years old, my mom decided the entire house needed a good clean, and I was told to go to my bedroom and tidy it all … Read more

A painful picture

I had a strict upbringing in a religious household, and I was generally a good, pious girl who aimed to please my parents. I loved getting praised for my schoolwork, … Read more

Over-reaching my responsibilities

I am the eldest of three children, and as I got older my parents occasionally used me as a babysitter for my two younger siblings. At the time of this … Read more

A rod of our own

I came across your article regarding The Rod and found it rather interesting – particularly the question at the end concerning parents who have used it, since we did use … Read more

In the basement with Dad

I grew up in a large, very religious family and discipline was taken very seriously. ‘Spare the rod, spoil the child’ was my father’s favorite maxim – although in our … Read more

No match for discipline

This is a true story from my childhood in 1980s New Zealand. One day, when I was about eight years old, I decided to play with some matches I found … Read more

Two sore bottoms at church

When my oldest child Rebecca was 10 years old, she and her closest friend Mary decided one Sunday that they didn’t particularly want to pay attention to junior worship and … Read more

Spankings in the family

I come from a large family, where the primary punishment for more serious misbehaviour was to be spanked, and spanked very hard indeed. When I was younger, my spankings were … Read more

A childhood of punishments

Your recent story Bus, Paddle, Belt struck a chord with me, as it reminded me very strongly of my own childhood. I read your website frequently, and have never before … Read more

Bus, paddle, belt

Due to my having ADHD, I was a ‘difficult child’, as my mom put it, and sometimes I misbehaved purely out of boredom. One morning, when I was in second … Read more

Cooling off, warming up

Growing up in the 60s and 70s, I – along with many other boys and girls – was brought up with spankings from my parents, from a young age until … Read more

Before and after the paddle

I went to a private high school where paddling was still allowed. Unlike all of the porn videos, it was not done in the principal’s office and you were not … Read more