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Bringing up the children (audio)
Mother-of-four Harriet describes her varying approaches to the use of corporal punishment during the spanking years.
A change in their behaviour
I’ve only ever had one ‘proper spanking’ in my entire life, at least for actual punishment and discipline. I’m sure my parents maybe gave me the odd slap on the … Read more
From all sides
I thought you might like to hear about the origins of my own particular spanking fetish, which has been fuelled by experiences on all sides of the equation. It began, … Read more
The hand of retribution
The worst spanking I ever got was off my Aunt Jennifer, my mother’s youngest sister, when I was nine years old. My mum had to go into hospital for an … Read more
A change in policy
When I was growing up in the 1950s and 60s, parents did not hesitate to scold their children publicly, or even spank them. I have many memories of mothers walking … Read more
Mother and son intimacy
As a boy growing up in the 50s, I was used to getting the slipper from my father, as I suspect were many other children of that tie. The punishment … Read more
Bringing up the children
The first spanking I ever gave was when Ben was three. I was tired and stressed, with a baby and a three and four-year-old to look after, with my husband … Read more
Smacked in the name of God
I grew up in what would now be called a cult – there was strict dress, non-mainstream schooling, extreme entanglement with the church and little outside influence. I am an … Read more
An appointment with Miss Taylor
I went to a private girls school during the early 1970s. It was an age where attitudes to children, and their behaviour, were still pretty much 20 years behind the … Read more
A childhood of smacking
I’d like to relay some smacking memories from my own childhood – for the sake of anonymity, I’ll refer to myself as ‘Bobby’ if you don’t mind. Although a girl, … Read more
Softened up for spanking
The most embarrassing spanking I ever got was the first time I was done completely nude in front of both my parents. This wasn’t to be the only one I … Read more
Dealing with a thief
Around the age of seven, in 1986, I went through a patch of stealing. Mum and dad were deeply honest people and naturally found my habit disgusting. I remember that … Read more
Brought up short
I have only given one punishment spanking in my life – because that isolated incident made me realise I was into giving spankings, and it never felt right to do … Read more
The call home
I was born in 1994, and so corporal punishment in schools was long gone by the time I started at primary. I went to a church of England school in … Read more
Two kinds of warmth
My name is Aahan, I am a 42-year-old Indian-English man. I live in Birmingham now, having spent my childhood split between Mumbai, London and Portsmouth. My parents are both Indian … Read more
A complex thing
I can trace my interest in spanking back to an encounter in the changing room at my school’s swimming baths back in the late 1970s. Before that, I had no … Read more
Double trouble over workbook
I previously wrote about how I almost got spanked in kindergarten for something I didn’t do. I was a really well-behaved child and didn’t have another run in with official … Read more
The mark on the chair
My great grandmother used to watch me one afternoon a week at her house after my half-day of kindergarten was over – this was in the early 1970s. I used … Read more
My last time
It was 1991, and I was by now in secondary school. There was no corporal punishment used there, and even most of my mates were getting nothing beyond the odd … Read more
My spanking history
Thank you for your website and all you do to preserve spanking history – I am a long-term reader and thought it was about time I contributed myself. Mum and … Read more
At the doctor’s
I first knew I had a ‘thing’ about spanking at quite an early age – nine, to be exact – when I had an encounter in the surgery of our … Read more
A brush with CP
I have an older brother and a younger sister, and of the three of us, I got spanked the most by quite a considerable margin. On the ‘sore bottoms table’ … Read more
My first ever slippering
I was never very good at school work. Fortunately for me, the school I attended had stopped using corporal punishment before I began attending it (some time ahead of it … Read more
Revelation of discipline
In more recent years, you would be tempted to think that the practice of spanking Britain’s naughty children has more or less died a death, thanks to a combination of … Read more
The awakening
The first teacher I had a crush on was Mrs Patterson, who took me in third grade. I wasn’t the only one who thought her pretty. My father was the … Read more
Punish bottoms, not minds
One aspect of spankings few people mention when discussing childhood discipline is the element of panic. It swallowed me as soon as I knew I was getting a spanking. I’d … Read more
A boot up the backside
Let me take you back to a cold winter morning in 1987. I was eight years old, and I was quite a naughty boy – running off, rarely listening to … Read more
Insight into the past
I am not a fetishist – I’m not ‘kinky’ and not naturally aroused by spanking. My husband, however, is – something I didn’t get to know about until the first … Read more
Freedom – to spank
My girls went to a private school in Utah during the 1990s. The school catered for children from kindergarten through to 12th grade, and was a weird mix of mega-liberal … Read more
A lesson from mother-in-law
By the time my son Ben reached his third birthday, he was becoming a bit of a handful, to say the least. My wife and I had resisted the idea … Read more
A close-run thing
I grew up in the 1970s and early 1980s, when corporal punishment was a normal part of kids’ lives. When I was little, my stepmother had no problem planting a … Read more
A spanking from my sister
I was born in 1970 and grew up in Bolton, in the north west of the UK. We were a family of four – myself, Mum and Dad, and my … Read more
Family spanking therapy
I’ve been reading Maman for years, and was happily surprised to see your post about troubled teen schools. I didn’t go to one but my family went thru family therapy … Read more
Caned by Miss Archer
When I left school, I started work in a small office. The staff consisted of the owner and four other ladies. I have changed all names to protect their privacy. … Read more
Troubled teens’ butts
I don’t think I’ve seen any stories on your site involving the ‘troubled teen’ industry. This surprised me, because the TTI is pretty notorious for using physical punishment – 99.9% … Read more