The Spanking Mum: It’s not about you
I want to talk about the biggest falsehood that’s been sold to parents since the beginning of ‘progressive’ thinking about raising children. Namely, that it’s OK to spank in anger … Read more
I want to talk about the biggest falsehood that’s been sold to parents since the beginning of ‘progressive’ thinking about raising children. Namely, that it’s OK to spank in anger … Read more
I was raised in the UK county of Norfolk during the 1980s. Around the age of 10, I became friends with an American boy called Craig who was the same … Read more
It was in 1949 that Dr Benjamin Spock published the first edition of Baby and Child Care – the book widely accepted as a watershed in the way we bring … Read more
I grew up in a Jewish family in Brooklyn, New York, in the 1970s. A few houses away from us lived my aunt, my mother’s sister, and we were very … Read more
OK, so here comes a difficult one. I know that many parents who are happy to endorse the occasional moderate spanking have trouble with the idea of taking down their … Read more
I love your website! I’m 35 years old and have one daughter, who has just turned nine. Even though corporal punishment is not that common in our part of the world, … Read more
This is one of the many memories I have of growing up in a normal Catholic family in Ireland in the early 1990s. Neither my own bum, nor that of … Read more
Betty lives in Arizona and at the time of the interview, her two daughters were aged nine and ten, and she also had a ten-year-old stepdaughter. She spoke frankly and … Read more
Some of you may have already read my contribution to the Mothers Talking series – I’d like now to tell you about the discipline I was subject to myself as … Read more
As a parent (and, perhaps, particularly as a mother), you become surprisingly and quickly inured to the least glamourous aspects of bringing up children – dribble, snot, wee and poo. … Read more
I guess quite a few kids have walked in on their parents having sex. I was unlucky enough to be spanked for it, however. I was eight years old at … Read more
Lauren may already be familiar to some of Maman’s readers thanks to her reminiscences about spankings she received both at home and at school. Now, she shares some observations from … Read more
I appreciate that many of your correspondents consider they had strict parents growing up – but try having a high court judge as your dad, as I did! From what … Read more
One of my most vivid memories of being spanked happened a few weeks after I turned seven. It was a warm, late summer day and my mother and I were … Read more
The following conversation was found somewhere on the web some years ago – a group of now young women discussing memories of getting their bottoms spanked for wetting their pants. … Read more
Some time ago, a young UK mother-of two named Louise published a series of comment pieces about family discipline in a blog entitled The Spanking Mum. For various reasons, Louise … Read more
Beryl is a 68-year-old retired nanny living in the Lancashire region of the UK. Aside from the many children of other families she has looked after in her time, she … Read more
Mary is a mother of three children. At the time of this interview, her son was 12 and her two daughters 14 and 15 respectively. Can we start with you … Read more
I had a very brief stint as a smoker – it started when I was 13 and ended around a week later. I went to a mixed grammar school in … Read more
In the late 1950s and early 1960s, I attended a boarding school in the Midlands region of England, close to the Cheshire border. It remains a boarding school to this … Read more
Betty is a mother of three from Arizona. At the time of interview, her two daughters were aged nine and ten, and she also had a 10-year-old stepdaughter. Are your … Read more
I have always been drawn to maternal authority figures. As a child, I always delighted in being obedient for my mother and had several crushes on my teachers. But neither … Read more
I grew up in Texas during the 1960s, and my parents were traditional Southern Baptists. Life for me and my brothers and sisters revolved around church, chores and family. Our … Read more
When I was a boy, during the 1960s, my favourite sweets were Rowntrees Fruit Gums. They came in two types – the small, pill-shaped ones in a roll, aimed firmly … Read more
Imogen is a 60-year-old English grandmother. She has just the one son, Michael, who was no stranger to a sore bottom during his formative years. Tell us about your own … Read more
The most embarrassing punishment I ever received happened when I was 11 years old. At the time. my mother, nine-year-old brother and I were taking swimming lessons at our local … Read more
I think I must have been around six years old and in my kindergarten class. It was winter time and I was wearing pantyhose under my dress that day. It … Read more
I was raised with the Canadian school strap across my bottom. My mom had been a teacher before starting her family and brought home the strap she had frequently employed … Read more
I have been reading through many of your stories and find it very interesting to learn about how others were raised and punished by their parents. I was born in the … Read more
I was ten years old, and beginning to get curious about girls. I mention this in advance as a bit of a defence, as there’s no doubt that what I … Read more
I’ve already told you how I got paddled for passing notes in class – this is the story about what happened when I got home that day, with an already … Read more
Back in the 1950s, we used to catch the bus to and from school. On this particular day I’m recalling, there were decidedly mixed feelings amongst the many youngsters on … Read more
This happened when I was in eighth grade, which would be in the mid-1980s. I was 13. I’ve changed the teachers’ names just in case. I, like most kids when … Read more
I’m always fascinated by the detailed accounts on your website, because I think in truth many of us who grew up with spankings as children don’t tend to remember individual … Read more
Andrea is an American mother living in a small, rural town. She has two daughters, who at the time of interview were aged eight and five. Can we start by … Read more
When I was 10 years old, I was extremely fond of the old radio shows that came on late on Sunday afternoons – The Shadow, Inner Sanctum and others. They … Read more
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