Witness to the cane (audio)
Edward remembers an apple scrumping expedition which resulted in him witnessing a very private event – and one he found … more
Edward remembers an apple scrumping expedition which resulted in him witnessing a very private event – and one he found … more
Ruth, the mother of two now grown children, remembers purchasing a punishment cane from an ad in the back of a British new… more
Around 20 years ago now, my husband’s job took us to Oman in the United Arab Emirates, and we spent around five happ… more
When I was in my third year of primary school in the UK (I’d be around seven), one of those crazes which captures kid… more
My next door neighbour Linda was a single woman who had two teenage daughters. She was very old-fashioned in outlook, la… more
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Back in the day (well, the late 90s/early 00s to be a bit more precise), a rather eye-catching adver… more
During the 1980s, Denise and her sister Tracy were subject to a regime of corporal punishment that, while dying out, was … more
Many of us, it would seem, have witnessed family or friends receiving corporal punishment. However, the most memorabl… more
An anonymous user wrote in to share his experience of going up to his mother’s bedroom, being ordered to drop his t… more
When I was 15 years old, my parents had to go away for a couple of weeks to visit my grandma, who was very ill at the time. As it … more
I’ve enjoyed reading many of your accounts of childhood scrapes and punishments from other people, but I think m… more
When I was 13, we got new neighbours. They had just one child, a boy five years younger than myself, but my main focus of the … more
I went to a school in north London during the 1970s and the cane was still very much in use. I was unfortunate enough to be se… more
In this extract from her now discontinued blog The Spanking Mum, Louise discusses the pros and cons of spanking in the pr… more
Receiving your first spanking as a child is one thing, but administering such a punishment for the first time as a carer i… more
In the days when corporal punishment was far more common than it is now, quite a few parents allowed other adults to infli… more
When Helen and her friend June are caught smoking in school for the second time in less than a month, the remedy is the stra… more
My parents were generally very kind and loving and it was not often that corporal punishment was resorted to in our house… more
Editor’s note: This contribution was originally emailed to Maman in 2002.
I know that in this permissive day and … more
I was 16 years old, late in my sophomore year of high school. It was the early 1990s. I went to a school that paddled fairly r… more
Daiyu is a mother-of-two from Singapore. At the time of the original interview, she was the mother of one little boy, who … more
When I was nine years old and growing up in a small Scottish town, we had a change of neighbour after the elderly gentleman … more
I’ve seen a few references on your site to being spanked on a wet bottom, and how it hurts a lot more somehow than a dr… more
The part of spanking stories that appeals to me the most is the embarrassment. I’m not sure why but as long a… more
The degree of privacy afforded for spankings administered to children of the opposite sex certainly varied family by f… more
Nowadays, any childminder who smacked the bottoms of the children in her charge would end up in court. But not that long a… more
When I was in the third grade in the 1990s, my best friend was Cory, who lived about four blocks away from our house. One day… more
Life on a working canal boat back in the ‘good old days’ was tough on bargee parents – and their children oft… more
Back in the 80s my best friend was a girl called Latisha. I’m white, Latisha is black. Close interracial friendsh… more
The childish games we play in our youth sometimes have a very adult dynamic beneath them, as Fiona found out when she and a … more
Considering it hurt so much at the time, you may think it odd that I remember my mom’s spanking spoon with such affe… more
Intentions of being a progressive parent are one thing, but the reality of disciplining children in the real world can o… more
During the 1950s, I went to a strict boarding school in Western Australia, and I remember being caned very vividly.
To ea… more
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