When they were young, both my girls got spanked pretty regular. I brought them up alone and did what was best for them, and that meant teaching them the rules as best as I could. So I gave them spanks quite a lot when it didn’t seem that there was another way around it. They are both grown now, in their 20s and they seem all right, even pretty good, so I guess I didn’t do them any harm.
Spankings were always done in a certain way. Alone with mom in the kitchen, pants down or skirt up, over the chair, undies up the crack of your butt. I gave a belt for each year of the child’s age, so at age 12 they got 12 spanks etc. After you had been given them, you had to say sorry for being bad.