My husband and I were both raised in strict Christian homes in the Midwest of the US, so on the night of our honeymoon we were both virgins, and generally very inexperienced sexually.
Perhaps it’s not surprising that our early attempts at intercourse were quite frustrating. My husband Andy lacked confidence to take the lead and lovemaking was a silent and strenuous affair for both of us. Often he would lose his erection, or if penetration was successful he would be so hyped up that he would come in a very short time – leaving me unsatisfied, to say the least.